Germans: Workplace kissing is terrorism
German organization which advises
on etiquette says
greeting colleagues with a kiss
is form of terrorism
A German organization, The Knigge Society, which advises on etiquette and social behavior, says the practice of greeting colleagues and business partners with a kiss on the cheek is uncomfortable for many Germans, and even a “form of terrorism,” the BBC reports.
Knigge Society chairman, Hans-Michael Klein, says he has received concerned emails from workers on the issue. He advises them to insist on the traditional handshake.
“People say this is not typical German behavior — it has come from places like Italy, France and South America,” Klein told the BBC, adding that “we have to protect people who don’t want to be kissed.
“So we are suggesting that if people don’t mind it, they announce it with a little paper message placed on their desk.”
Klein goes so far as to refer to kissing in the workplace as “a form of terror,” and he suggests to a “social distance zone” that should be observed.
“The suspicion for many remains that there is, or may be, an erotic component to the kissing.
“Kissing simply gets on the nerves of many at work. It is a form of terror.
“In business the handshake is considered the correct greeting ritual. Stand apart from one another approximately 60 centimeters and shake.”
The Knigge Society, named after the German term for a guide to good manners, is based in a castle 80km from Dortmund in western Germany.
It has reportedly previously ruled on the correct way to end a relationship via text message, and how to deal with a runny nose in public.
There are some cheeks I would definitely kiss, and some hands I wouldn’t want to shake. Sounds like the “Kissing Hello” Seinfeld episode. Kissing is terrorism if you are intimidated by human contact.
I agree with these guys. Don’t fucking come around wanting to kiss me unless we are at least intimate friends. Keep your fucking hugs to yourself too. Same std. applies.
Having said that: You know what’s actually funny about Germans?
Nothing.
Awww SH, Germans are funny! Just not on purpose! 🙂
Ach! Du Lieber! A post it note on your cheek? Would that be a red circle with a / through a pair of lips, so those auslanders would understand? Uptight, much? That being said, doesn’t George W look gay and happy in that photo?
I agree that kissing is not normal German behavior at all. Handshake or a kiss makes no difference to me, depending of course on the type of kiss.